When did social media metrics become life or death? This is the question that everyone has been asking after the tragic death of Misha Agrawal. For a few social media users, Instagram likes and follower counts aren’t just numbers as they’re often seen as markers of success, love, and self-worth. But 24-year-old content creator Misha's death by suicide, just days before her 25th birthday, exposes the dark side of this validation race. Her family revealed she spiralled into depression after her follower count dropped, believing her career and identity were crumbling. “She felt worthless without those numbers,” her sister shared. This heartbreaking loss forces us to ask about the role of numbers in the digital media scenario.
Why Did Misha Agrawal Commit Suicide
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Misha, a law graduate and cosmetics entrepreneur, had set her phone’s lock screen to “1 million followers”. It was a goal she chased relentlessly. By April 2025, she had over 3.5 lakh followers, but panicked as the number fluctuated. Her family’s Instagram post explains: “She’d cry, ‘My career is over if I lose followers.’ We reminded her she’d ace judicial exams, but she couldn’t see beyond Instagram.”
On April 24, two days before her birthday, Misha took her own life. Her sister’s plea says, “Instagram is not a real world and followers are not real love, please try to understand this.” It highlights how virtual validation overshadowed Misha’s real-world achievements, including her LLB degree and the Mish Cosmetics brand. It was the brand that she envisioned.
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Psychologists note that social media algorithms prey on our need for approval. For creators like Misha, each like or follow releases dopamine, linking self-esteem directly to online metrics. When numbers drop, it triggers anxiety akin to rejection. Shaikh Uzma Jamal, Emotional Fitness Coach, Founder - Educate To Elevate, Lucknow, explains: “Youngsters internalise followers as their ‘community.’ Losing them feels like losing real relationships.” Misha’s case isn’t isolated. Studies show influencers face higher rates of anxiety and depression due to constant comparison and algorithmic unpredictability.
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- Spot the Signs: Sudden social withdrawal, talk of hopelessness, or extreme mood swings.
- Listen Without Judgment: Avoid phrases like “Snap out of it.” Instead, say, “I’m here. Let’s talk.”
- Limit Social Media: Encourage offline hobbies and real-world connections.
- Seek Professional Help: Therapy or helplines can provide tools to manage anxiety.
- Practice Self-Worth Anchoring: Remind yourself (or others) that metrics don’t define you-values, skills, and relationships do.
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Misha’s family tried reassuring her: “You’ll become a judge!”. It was the dream that the 24-year-old content creator had. But Misha’s self-worth was too entangled with Instagram. Her death underscores the urgent need to:
- Normalise Failure: Fluctuating followers, lost jobs, or bad grades are part of life, not the end of it.
- Promote Digital Detoxes: Schools and parents must teach kids to value offline achievements.
- Redefine Success: Celebrate kindness, curiosity, and resilience over likes and followers.
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Conclusion
Misha Agrawal’s story is a heartbreaking wake-up call about the invisible toll of social media’s validation race. While platforms like Instagram promise connection, they often leave young minds trapped in a cycle of comparison and self-doubt. Her death reminds us that behind every follower count is a human being craving love, not likes. As her sister’s plea echoes, “Instagram isn’t real life”, may we all learn to measure our value not in numbers, but in the moments that truly make us feel alive.