How to Charm a Girl and Flatter Her to Like You

Do you doubt your chances of flattering a girl? Well, here are some strategies to get attention of that special girl.

Himanshu Sharma
DatingWritten by: Himanshu SharmaPublished at: Sep 10, 2012
How to Charm a Girl and Flatter Her to Like You

How to Charm a Girl and Flatter Her to Like You

Have you been trying to sweep your crush by her feet with chocolate and gift showers, but in vain? Charming a woman takes more than what sells in colourful Archies and Hallmark stores. To make your way to her heart, take a look at these tricks that might work like a magic wand.


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Be Her Friend – Girls are never interested in strangers. So, don’t be a stranger if you want to grab her attention. Enter in her friend-zone but don't be friend-zoned. Be friendly; know her by hanging out as her friend. Thereafter, flirt a little. She will be intimate with a guy she knows and trusts, which could only be achieved with chit-chats as a friend.


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Spend Time with Her – When you are next to her, it will be easier for you to get her attention. Make an eye contact or compliment her. To start a dialogue, you may ask her to help you out with some problem. Do not, however, be clingy and always give her some space.

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Compliment Her – You will appreciate a lot of things of someone you like. Let her know what you like about her by complimenting her. If she has done something differently, such as braided hair in a new style, make a note of it and let her know how it is. Compliments should be stand-out comments, such as those about her personality, how good she is at something and her way of doing things. The best way of complementing is to find something new about her and acknowledging it. Whenever you compliment, try to be genuine. Exaggerating or adulating will turn her off and portray you as a flirt.

Look Good – Keeping yourself well-groomed and neat is the first thing you should do. A good score at appearance is extremely important if you want to make her like you, as your greasy hair and bad body odour will certainly take you down. Make a good first impression with your appearance. Having a good level of personal hygiene will make you more appealing.

Don't Stalk – Girls love attention, but, reaching out in her life will annoy her. It is good to know few things about her that she doesn't tell you, but do you want to be called a 'peeper'?

Being self-confident will be your best weapon, but it is of no use if you boast your accomplishments.


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