Anupam Kher on Wife Kirron’s Pregnancy Struggles and Not Having Biological Children: “There’s A Void”

Anupam Kher and Kirron Kher are among Bollywood's most admired couples. They fell in love through the world of theatre and later married in 1985. Their relationship has always seemed solid, based on respect, laughter, and shared experiences in life. But there lies a more intimate, painful episode behind their affectionate relationship, a chapter of pregnancy complications and their choice not to have biological children together. Earlier this year, Anupam spoke more about this in an open interview, giving an intimate glimpse into their personal journey of infertility and acceptance.

Anupam Kher Shares The Void 

In a new chat on Raj Shamani’s YouTube podcast, Anupam Kher reflected on his life choices and moments that made him stop and think. When asked about his earlier statement of feeling a “void,” he explained that he didn’t always feel that way.

"I never felt anything lacking," Anupam revealed. "Sikander was 4 when I entered Kirron's life. He was good enough for me." Sikander is Kirron Kher's child from her first marriage, whom Anupam brought up as his own. But he agreed that things altered with the years. "When I became 60, I began pondering it. About never seeing a child grow before my eyes," he mentioned.

He also spoke about trying to conceive. "Kirron was not able to conceive. And then once she did, the baby grew differently," he explained. They had to give up on the pregnancy. Meanwhile, Anupam confessed, he was obsessed with work. "I was too busy becoming a big deal," he confesses. His utterances provided the public with a better glimpse into the emotional life of the couple. Many identified with both his acceptance and inner sadness.

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Pregnancy Challenges Are More Prevalent Than One Realises

Anupam and Kirron's situation is not an isolated one. Infertility has beset many couples, even in our time. It may be emotional, lonely, and hard to discuss openly. A Journal of Human Reproductive Sciences study points out that approximately 10-15% of couples in India experience fertility issues. According to one section of the study, infertility causes immense emotional distress. The condition impacts both partners and can result in long-term mental health issues if not addressed properly. This is how infertility can severely affect one's identity, relationships, and subsequent thoughts in life.

On Parenting and Acceptance

While Anupam never had a biological child, his relationship with Sikander Kher is close. He has frequently talked about him fondly, showing up to his events and promoting his work. Parenting does not necessarily come from biology, and Anupam's life proves it. Nevertheless, his recent statements reflect the unspoken emotions that may emerge with age, whether life is full in many other respects or not.

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Conclusion

Anupam Kher's musings remind us that even those who are powerful, successful individuals have silent heartbreak. His candour about Kirron's pregnancy issues and how they chose not to have children speaks about a subject often not spoken about. With age comes reflection, and by opening up, he's provided space to other people who might feel the same.