How to Handle Unruly Children?

One of the biggest challenges a parent faces is guiding their children to behave in a socially acceptable manner. Research has found that overindulgence by parents is the most common reason for behavioural problem.  It is important that you recognize the sign of a spoiled child before it’s too late. Read on to know how to control your unruly children. Respond to bad behavior in the same way every time. If they see a pattern, they will know what to expect when they misbehave. Make rules which are clear and consistent. This helps them to develop self-control and good behavior. Use positive methods of disciplining like rewarding good behavior; say a firm “no” to discourage negative actions. Give them reminders. If your child misbehaves, remind them of the repercussions (such as “if you hit anyone today in the park I will take you home and there’ll be no television”). Explain the consequences of bad behaviour. Give them responsibility and encourage them to help at home. such as with the cleaning and cooking. This gives them a feeling of responsibility and diverts their energy in a positive way. Limit their television time and monitor the programs they watch. Many cartoons are violent and aggressive, so children can pick up these traits.