How to Adopt Your Step-child?

Are you considering adopting your step-child? Do you know it can be easier than a regular adoption?  Before you consider this, there are certain things you need to think about. Determine if your step-child is comfortable and wants to be adopted by you; it is possible for the child to feel strongly about his biological parent and he may not want to be adopted. Determine if your spouse thinks it is right. Consider if the parent you would be replacing would be willing to consent to adoption. Without the consent of the biological parent you cannot adopt unless he/she has abandoned the child. Consult a lawyer/social worker to know the procedure for adoption in your area. Adoption by a step-parent is an easier process, as the waiting period, your eligibility for adoption and further investigations aren’t as strenuous. Decide if you want to change the child's last name after the adoption; determine if the child and your spouse are comfortable with it. Consider counseling after adoption as this may help the child to deal with his or her feelings about the adoption and the other biological parent. You should understand and realize the legal implications of adoption, as this will give the child all the rights of a biological child; you will be responsible for supporting the child and he/she will be entitled to inherit from you when you die.  
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How to Adopt Your Step-child?

Are you considering adopting your step-child? Do you know it can be easier than a regular adoption?  Before you consider this, there are certain things you need to think about.

  • Determine if your step-child is comfortable and wants to be adopted by you; it is possible for the child to feel strongly about his biological parent and he may not want to be adopted.
  • Determine if your spouse thinks it is right.
  • Consider if the parent you would be replacing would be willing to consent to adoption. Without the consent of the biological parent you cannot adopt unless he/she has abandoned the child.
  • Consult a lawyer/social worker to know the procedure for adoption in your area.
  • Adoption by a step-parent is an easier process, as the waiting period, your eligibility for adoption and further investigations aren’t as strenuous.
  • Decide if you want to change the child's last name after the adoption; determine if the child and your spouse are comfortable with it.
  • Consider counseling after adoption as this may help the child to deal with his or her feelings about the adoption and the other biological parent.
  • You should understand and realize the legal implications of adoption, as this will give the child all the rights of a biological child; you will be responsible for supporting the child and he/she will be entitled to inherit from you when you die.

 

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