Why do people cheat? How can someone just start seeing someone else while still being in a relationship?
Well, this is not a fairytale, there is no prince charming, there is no damsel in distress and certainly there will be no happily ever after. This is real world; you are dealing with real people here, so prepare for real emotions. The love will be real, the tears will be real, the hurt will be real, and the pain will be real because in real world, if love is a reality, betrayal is another bitter truth.
The people who claim to have fallen in love with you will fall out of love as quick. You won’t even realize and the person you are in a relationship with will start sleeping with someone else and you won’t even get to know. Yes, people cheat on people they once loved. Cheating is always painful but the sooner you find out, the lesser pain you endure. However, it so happens that you do not realize that your partner is cheating on you.
What are the signs that your partner is cheating on you, that he is sleeping with someone else? Here is a list of tell-tell signs that she or he is seeing someone else.
When you get into a relationship, you tend to talk a lot over texts, calls and whatever means of communication available. You are interested in knowing about each other, you like laughing together, you look forward to more calls but when that person starts seeing someone else, you are no more the only person and thus the calls and texts will reduce.
Your body will excite them less; they will start withdrawing from any sort of physical intimacy. You no more will feel the passion and heat that once was there. The kisses and hugs will be less affectionate. You will feel an unexplainable dryness while getting intimate with them. Sex could be there but it will be plain sex and nothing else. The excitement dies. Cuddling, kisses, hugs and other things that once made sex meaningful will vanish and that is your wake-up call.
They get annoyed at you quite often. The things that once they found attractive about you will start ticking them off. Why? There is no motivation to like you anymore, to appreciate you, your efforts and whatever you do because he or she has started liking someone else.
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