Sex often does not come knocking at your door and therefore, little thought goes into dressing up for it. But, if you have been doing it for a while and want to blow your partner with a pleasant surprise, you need to teach yourself the basics of dressing up for sex.
Sex may be the cherry on top for your man, but it is for you to transform him from somebody who desires touch to someone who gets downright desperate to hop on bed with you just by walking around him. We guide you through the experiment of dressing for sex and help you nail it.
Keep Skin Show to a Limit
The first chapter on seduction is to reveal as little as possible; this, however, does not mean you buy the next shimmering Burkha you spot. Your motive is to seduce your man, not put him off. Reveal, but with limits. For instance, buy see through skirts that will cover you enough but also make your man think he has seen it all. You could also wear a thin, plain white tee with a black silk bra inside or nothing, should you think of getting him on in an instant.
Google “Soft Fabrics”
When you are shopping for your favourite little things to wrap your body with, check the soft fabrics section. Recall the first time your man touched you. Wasn’t he instantly turned on? It is the supple feel that gives a man’s sex hormones a kick. The soft fabric will take him back to that first day you both were intimate without him even really touching your skin.
Browse Lacy Lingerie
While browsing the lingerie store, make sure that you pick bold colours like black or red. Men can do little about their eyes stuck at the picture of a woman wearing lingerie outside the lingerie store. You can only imagine what will happen if he sees you wearing a sexy laced black or read bra and matching panties in front of him. Just remember not to sit in a corner with your legs spread when he enters the room, but move around.
Drape Loose Fits
There is nothing as sexy as a single piece of unstitched cloth draped around a bare woman. For examples, you could tell your man that you will be back in a jiffy, head to the bathroom and change into a soft robe, take the wine out of the refrigerator, walk back to where your partner is sitting and bend to pour the wine into the glass. For all you know your man will grab you by your arms instantly.
[Read: Ways to Make Sex Sexier]
Your man would run his wildest night of passion if you transform yourself into his favourite lady from the porn cartoon strip or the hot girl in his favourite sitcom. The moment he enters the bedroom, he’d rip his clothes off and come flying to you.
Be the Cutie
Men love cute girls no matter how much they deny their wildest dream to bed a cute girl. So, turn into one tonight and watch his pants grow tall from the middle. Walk around in a blue boy shorts and couple it with a short white tee.
No matter how you plan to dress for the night, it is important that you feel good and sexy. If all you care about is to get your guy to enjoy and not the slightest of how you feel, you will only ruin the fun.
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