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How to Start a Conversation with a Girl

By:Himanshu Sharma, Onlymyhealth Editorial Team,Date:Dec 31, 2013
You've just met a girl at friend’s party and you want to talk to her. Here’s how you should approach her and start a conversation.
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    Initiating a Conversation With a Girl

    You are at a friend’s party or an exhibition. You see a girl there and you want to talk to her. In the back of your mind are those pickup lines that you’ve heard in the movies but you know they don’t work. Here’s how you should approach her and start a conversation.

    Initiating a Conversation With a Girl
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    Say hello

    “Hi. My name is Mike.” It should be the first thing that you do. Keep it simple and do it with a smile on your face. The next thing to this is asking for her name.

    Say hello
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    Talk about the place or weather

    You can always remark on the location or occasion. Make a comment on how sunny it is. Some other examples are - ‘I love this season!’ and ‘beautiful day out today, isn't it?’

    Talk about the place or weather
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    Pay her compliments

    Women love if anybody pays them compliments. Compliment her, but make sure that it sounds polite and genuine. Make her feel good about herself.

    Pay her compliments
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    Take help of questions

    Sometimes, questions can help you break the ice. When you have nothing to talk about, ask the girl an interesting or thought-provoking question. It’s a win-win; you make a good impression and she will express herself.

    Take help of questions
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    Talk about common interests

    Discovering that you have a shared interest is like finding gold. If you discover that you both are music enthusiasts, you could ask her what her favourite artists are, or if she's ever considered singing.

    Talk about common interests
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    Ask for help

    If you find an open seat next to that girl, you can ask ‘Is this seat taken?’. Ask if you can sit there! Introduce yourself and see where things go.

    Ask for help
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    Talk about common friend

    When you met at a friend’s party, ask how they know each other. This is a great icebreaker.

    Talk about common friend
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